Whether why some people cannot reach their familiarities to marriage or marry in their youth opportunity, is concern for many. But whether why some people after marriage, feel loneliness again, is a problem that has been taken less. Fact is that committing some mistake in relation leads us toward loneliness. In the following, 20 mistakes are mentioned that cause, you always are lonely and helpless even in your marriage, too.
1) Marriage with one who cannot control his/her excitement. Such related people are load on your shoulder because you should contain them, take care of them and accept their excitements like a child .really, it is a hard work!
2) Marriage with one that you feel , he is far from you for miles or his/her mind is engaged in other thoughts severely .
3) Marriage with one who is very silent or he rarely starts a conversation.
4) Marriage with one who only talks about himself/herself. These people do not give opportunity to you that you show yourself. Basically, they do not see you and they are center of the world and the rest of the world and humans are not important for them.
5) Marriage with one who shows less interest to set communication with opposite party (you) from himself/herself.
6) Marriage with one who in his/her previous relation, could not have an approximate feeling relation with his/her spouse.
7) Marriage with one who keeps distance from others and his world is different with other peoples much. (it is possible , he is philosophically-behaved or look at the world in other type . such humans do not understand words of public of people and public of people also knows them as stranger .
8) Marriage with one who look at eyes of opposite party (you) very rarely. (These have problem in setting communication from base.)
9) One who has closed guard? In the first visits, he has usually put his/her legs on each other with sign of “plus” and gives a little information about himself/herself. This situation is continued in next visits, too.
In the same first visits, party should be put in your heart and you feel a little attraction than him/ her in yourself. If this sense does not come to you at the same time, you can never make it in common life. Finally, you are suffering from coldness of relations and your works reach to unsuitable cases.
10) One who is always searching others? In your visits, his attention is to others and he/she ignores you or subject of his/her argument with you is always others, not both of you.
11) One who in a circle, tends to set communication with others more than you! He ignores you intentionally since he is sure that you have nothing to entertain him/her. So, he/she makes himself/herself busy with others.
12) One who prevents to deepen cognition and provide his personal opinions and continuously, he/she does not show much thing about himself/herself by changing argument and determining conversation line.
13) One who investigates his/her mobile phone continuously? In virtual world, he/she lives more and easier than real world. It is not far, a period after living with this person, you have to, instead of calling together exchange email together! Humans who dive in virtual world, like to keep distance from reality and you as his/her spouse should be partner in this virtual world or be removed with external realities!
14) One who shows a little excitement about you from himself/herself? These humans are usually like a robot or the moved dead from the same first visits. They marry you since they should eventually marry a day. The same!
15) One who shows a little love and interest about anything from himself/herself? These humans are stiff, hard and stone and usually, they have no sense to anything, for instance common life and love and being lover.
16) One who seems restless and impatient, as if he/she prefers to be any other place other than beside you?
17) One who does not hear your words, does not laugh to your humors and your concerns are not important for him/her.
18) One who apparently, you have been not attracted to him/her, too. This is a serious warning! In the same first visits, party should be put in your heart and you feel a little attraction than him/ her in yourself. If this sense does not come to you at the same time, you can never make it in common life. Finally, you are suffering from coldness of relations and your works reach to unsuitable cases.
19) Marriage with one that it does not seem, he/she is attractive reasonably and logically for you. His/her opinions are far or cause your embarrassment.
20) Marriage with one who does not take a value for your desires and goals.
An important question
Why humans continue relation with one who causes, they feel loneliness that their familiarity reaches to marriage?
Most of people respond to this question such:”I saw other things in that person that were my interest and I liked to give him/her an opportunity that our relation goes; with this hope that circumstance is better”. But fact is that most of people progress in their relation rarely and in a word, they dissipate their age only and only and in contrast, more loneliness feeling has been gotten by them!